On Friday, September 12, 2024, Love Is Blind UK contestant Sabrina Vittoria opened up about her feelings of being “let down” by the show. Sabrina revealed that the popular reality series didn’t allow contestants to sign a prenuptial agreement before their weddings. In an interview, Sabrina expressed concerns over the financial aspect of marriage, stating that a prenuptial agreement could have protected both parties involved.
Sabrina, 33, appeared on the UK version of Love Is Blind, where singles meet, get to know each other, and get engaged—all without seeing each other. The premise is that emotional connections are more important than physical appearances. The couples-only meet face-to-face after engaging and must decide whether to get married by the show’s end.
Sabrina found herself engaged to a fellow contestant and looked forward to starting a new chapter of her life. However, behind the scenes, Sabrina began thinking about how serious marriage is. She realized that her financial future could be at risk without the proper legal protections. This is where she felt the show should have stepped in.
Prenuptial Agreements: Why They Matter
A prenuptial agreement, often called a “prenup,” is a legal document that couples sign before marriage. The agreement outlines how their assets, like money, property, and investments, will be divided if they get divorced. Prenups can also protect one spouse from taking on the other’s debts.
Sabrina explained that a prenup could have provided clarity and peace of mind for the couples on Love Is Blind UK. “You don’t know the person’s financial history or spending habits when you’re in the pods,” she said, referring to the show’s unique feature of contestants dating each other in separate rooms without seeing each other.
She added, “It’s a huge risk. You’re marrying someone based on a few conversations, and there’s no way to know their financial situation. A prenup would have made the decision more secure for everyone.”
Love Without Sight But Not Without Risk
Sabrina’s concerns highlight a significant issue with the show’s format. While Love Is Blind focuses on forming emotional connections, it doesn’t always address the practical realities of marriage. Many viewers watch the show for its romantic elements, but real-life commitments involve much more than love. Marriage is a legal contract that comes with financial obligations.
For Sabrina, the lack of a prenup option was a significant oversight. She pointed out that Love Is Blind takes place in an environment meant to fast-track relationships. Contestants get engaged after only a few days of conversation, and then they have just a few more weeks to decide whether to get married.
“I was caught up in the excitement at first,” she admitted. “But once the engagement happened, I started thinking about all the responsibilities of marriage. Financial security is one of the big ones, and I couldn’t help but wonder why there was no mention of prenups.”
The Importance of Financial Transparency in Marriage
Sabrina believes financial transparency is key to a successful marriage, especially when couples get to know each other quickly, like they do on Love Is Blind. “We talked about many deep things in the pods, but money never came up. It wasn’t until after the engagement that I realized how little I knew about his financial situation,” she shared.
The reality star explained how important it is for couples to discuss their finances openly. “It’s not just about love. You need to know if your partner has debt, how they manage money, and their financial goals. A prenup forces those conversations to happen before you tie the knot.”
Mixed Reactions from Fans and Experts
Sabrina’s comments have sparked mixed reactions from fans of the show. Some viewers agree with her and believe that Love Is Blind should include a financial safety net for contestants. “It’s one thing to take a chance on love, but your financial future shouldn’t be at risk,” one fan tweeted in support of Sabrina’s stance.
Others, however, think introducing prenups would take away from the show’s spirit. “The whole point of Love Is Blind is to focus on the emotional connection, not the legal or financial side of marriage,” another fan commented.
Experts in family law tend to side with Sabrina. Many agree that prenups can offer a layer of protection, especially in high-pressure situations like reality TV weddings. According to family lawyer Caroline Davis, “In any marriage, whether on a reality show or not, a prenuptial agreement can help protect each party’s assets and clarify expectations going into the marriage.
Davis also pointed out that reality TV marriages are unique because of the speed at which they progress. “There’s a lot of emotional intensity, but not always enough time to converse about finances. A prenup forces those discussions to take place.”
Missed Opportunity for Love Is Blind UK
Sabrina’s experience has raised questions about whether the producers of Love Is Blind should rethink how they handle the legal side of the show. While it’s clear that the focus is on emotional bonds, marriage is more than just a romantic gesture. It’s a legal contract with real consequences, especially regarding money.
Sabrina admitted that she wished she had asked more questions about her partner’s financial situation before the engagement. “I don’t regret going on the show. I met some amazing people and had a once-in-a-lifetime experience. But I feel like there was a missed opportunity to make the process safer for us.”
She hopes that future seasons of Love Is Blind will consider offering contestants the option to sign prenups. “It doesn’t mean you don’t trust your partner. It just means you’re protecting yourself and them. I think it’s something everyone should think about, especially in this kind of setting.
As for her future? Sabrina hasn’t ruled out the possibility of marriage but says she’ll approach it differently next time. “I’m still a romantic, but I’ve learned that love and marriage are different. Next time, I’ll cover all the bases—emotionally and financially.”
Sabrina’s candid reflections have opened up a new conversation around reality TV relationships, reminding everyone that while love might be blind, financial planning should always be precise.
