On September 13, 2024, former “Vanderpump Rules” star Stassi Schroeder made headlines with the release of her third memoir, “You Can’t Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off.” In this candid book, the 36-year-old television personality bares her soul, sharing deeply personal experiences that have shaped her life and relationships.
Schroeder courageously recounts a particularly dark moment in her past, detailing an incident where she engaged in self-harm during a difficult period in her relationship with her now-husband, Beau Clark. She describes her actions as “vile, manipulative, and horrible,” expressing profound regret for sending photos of her self-inflicted injuries to Clark and her friend Katie Maloney.
The reality star credits Clark with helping her overcome this challenging time. She reveals that his ultimatum following the incident became a turning point in her life, leading her to cease self-harming behaviors. “Beau saved me that day,” Schroeder writes, highlighting the transformative power of support and love in overcoming personal demons.
Beyond this pivotal moment, Schroeder’s memoir delves into other mental health struggles, including suicidal ideation and a past addiction to Adderall. Her openness about these issues marks a significant step in destigmatizing mental health conversations in the public eye.
In a recent interview, Schroeder reflected on the visible reminders of her past struggles, particularly how they might affect her daughter, Hartford. She expressed concern and determination to address these sensitive topics with her children in the future.
Schroeder and Clark’s relationship has weathered these storms, evolving from a 2017 romance to marriage in 2020. The couple welcomed two children: daughter Hartford in 2021 and son Messer in 2023.
The television personality’s decision to share her story so openly stems from a desire to live authentically and without secrets. “I think that’s part of maybe why I do what I do — podcasts, just living out loud,” she explained, emphasizing the freedom she feels in transparency.
Schroeder’s revelations are a poignant reminder of many’s hidden battles and the importance of seeking help. Her journey from struggle to healing offers hope and encourages open dialogue about mental health.
If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that help is always available. Reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 for support. US Magazine
